This time of year I always grapple with this internal question: Do I tell my clients why I can’t schedule phone calls between the hours of 1 PM-7 PM Eastern in the summer or just never offer an explanation why I request a morning meeting? (In case you’re wondering, it’s because I like to take my 9-year-old and 7-year-old sons to the pool. Hey, they deserve a fun summer too!)

Some things you read say to maintain professionalism and don’t even mention your kids, because that will make you appear somehow less serious about your business. The other school of thought is that people thrive on human connection and it’s okay to give your clients a glimpse into your personal life. I have had some clients say they respect the boundaries I set. For example, enforcing my “rush” rates for a last minute weekend project a client brings me because I’m sacrificing family time. My family time is extremely important and so is my business time. Either one may sacrifice for the other, depending on whose needs are greater.

So, do we have to be “all business all the time” or can we give clients a glimpse into our lives in hopes they’ll respect us for it? As a client, what do you prefer? VAs, what’s your policy?

P.S. Oh, don’t call me after noon Eastern starting on Thursday. If you really need me, email me. I’ll periodically check my email on my iphone. How’s that for work/life compromise?